2 Peter 3:9
The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.
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“If it had been fully realized that Peter was addressing Christians, a great deal of theological confusion would have been avoided. Arminians have used the verse in defence of theory of universal atonement. They believe that God willed to save every human being without exception and that something beyond his control happened so as to defeat his eternal purpose.
The doctrine of universal redemption is not only refuted by Scripture generally, but the passage in question makes nonsense on such a view.
Since God has made and appointed the wicked for the day of evil, as [2 Peter] 2:3, 4 have already said, as 2:9 virtually implies, and as is distinctly stated in Romans 9:17-22, 2 Thessalonians 2:11-12, or as Proverbs 16:4 says, “The Lord has made everything for its own end, yea even the wicked for the day of evil,” it follows that God does not will the salvation of every member of the human race. It is not his will that every man without exception should repent. Repentance is a gift of God, and if God willed to, he would give everyone repentance. But obviously he does not. So much for the Scripture in general.
The verse 3:9 would make no sense otherwise. Peter is telling us that Christ’s return awaits the repentance of certain people. Now, if Christ’s return awaited the repentance of every individual without exception, Christ would never return. Already many have died unrepentant, and their number grow larger every day. The only time when evey individual had come to repentance was when Adam and Eve repented and were clothed with skins. The Arminians, unwittingly o b sure, imply that Christ should have returned them — his second advent antedating his first.
This is no new interpretation. The Similitudes viii, xi, 1 in the Shepherd of Hermas (c. A.D. 130-150), which because of the date serves as evidence for the epistle’s authenticty, says, “But the Lord, being long-suffering, wishes [thelei] those who were called [ten klesin ten genomenen] through his Son to be saved.” This quotation shows how the verse was understood in the second century. It is the called of elect whom God wills to save.
Peter therefore is saying simply that Christ will not return until every one of the elect has come to repentance.
Gordon H. Clark, New Heavens, New Earth: A Commentary on First and Second Peter, The Trinity Foundation, 1993, p231-232
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*Note. I have not copied the entire portion from Clark’s commentary here on 2 Peter 3:9, just the section (which is most of it) that most are interested in here. Refer to the book, for the full commentary.